When reading a fashion magazine today, I noticed that many things have at some point been labeled the “new black.” Why not blogging? A lot of people are doing it. People blog to express themselves, to record their children’s lives, to increase their creativity, to track their journey. People blog in color, in black and white, through pictures, through video. People blog with big words, with little words, about facts, and fiction. People blog about books, about exercise, about technology, about blogging. They blog about truth and about beauty. Blogging is everywhere and it’s about everything. So, I say blogging is the new black.

Word of the Week: Blogging

Word to the Wise:  “…whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.”  Philippians 4:8

Disclaimer: I read only the highest class of fashion magazines for blogging inspiration.

Do you have a blog? If so, what do you write about?


The Overactive Blog

May 12, 2011

In my last post, I told you how I ended up with an overactive blog. Now, let me explain why that could be problematic.

The overactive blog is much like the overactive bladder. It hits at the most inopportune times. Out to dinner with a friend? Oh, gotta go. Dancing the night away? Not again. In the middle of church, on a train or bus, at a neighbor’s house?

It doesn’t matter where you are or what you’re doing. When you gotta go, you gotta go.

It’s the same with blogging. When you gotta blog, you gotta blog.

Eventually, it can take over your life…if you let it.

Have you ever felt like your blog was taking over? How did you take control of the situation?

When I started this blog, it was to fill a void. You see, I was doing very interesting but very serious work at the time, and my creative brain was starved. This blog was the perfect solution for that situation.

As I started this blogging endeavor, I began spending numerous  hours reading blogs and blogs about blogs. I read that to be a successful blog (generally speaking) I needed to study up and read other blogs, write for a larger audience (not just my loyal followers, ahem) about a specific topic, and write frequently. I think these tips are excellent, but they began to take over.

During this time, things changed. I no longer had a creative void that needed to be filled, and I was left with an overactive blog.

So, I began thinking about re-doing the blog, spicing things up a bit. This is when I realized I needed to write my own rules for blogging, some ground rules, if you will. So, here goes.

Rule #1:  I will not blog stalk. I love following other blogs. I even have a few favorites. But, if I start to feel envious of someone else’s fun life, his or her number of followers, or his or her captivating writing, I will not let that feeling take over. I will not blog stalk.

Rule #2: I will not feel obligated to blog. Here’s the thing. I don’t get paid to do this. I would love to…but I don’t. So, I will blog when I want to blog – no more, no less. (my exception is the Sunday post, which started it all. the Sunday post will continue.)

Rule #3: I will not keep track of my followers or the number of site visits. I did. I even set a goal for myself once. I exceeded it a few weeks after my intended time period. It was exciting.  …it was fleeting. I will blog because I want to blog, not because I want people to read it. If you read it, thank you. If you don’t read it, that’s okay too (unless of course you are my friend or family…then, it is unacceptable).

Rule #4: I will blog about whatever I want.

Rule #5: Rules are sometimes meant for breaking.

Word of the Week: Rules

Word to the Wise:  “Christ is the end of the law so that there may be righteousness for everyone who believes.”  Romans 10:4

Disclaimer:  I make no claims that my “new rules of blogging” will bring you a successful blog. I only instituted these rules to relieve some of the stress in my own life. Follow them at your own risk. Blog responsibly.

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by something? What rules have you set for yourself to stay focused on your priorities?